Day 1: The Enneagram, Loss, Trauma, and Family Systems
The Enneagram, Loss, Trauma, and Family Systems
with Suzanne Stabile, Dr. Barbara Rila, and Rev. Dr. Andy Stoker
DAY 1 / RECORDING 1
Enneagram Triads and Introduction to Family Systems
The importance of Backdrop and Context
Change vs. Transformation
Enneagram Triads
Q&A
What is the difference between true depression and self isolation with FIVEs?
How does “allowing” fit into family systems and trauma?
How does a 7 manage gluttony and excess?
How are the triads responding to the pandemic?
What is the difference between fear and anxiety?
What does “self forgetting” mean for enneagram 9s?
Family Systems
Feedback loops
Balance and Homeostasis
Boundaries and Differentiation
Loss and chronic anxiety
Stoker Notes and intro to genograms
Q&A
Secrets in the family
Tension shifting from one family member to another
Welcoming a new child into the family
more!
This day’s recording is 5 Hours and 39 minutes long (Size: 244 MB)
Day 2 - Available February 12
Day 3 - Available March 12
Day 4 - Available April 9
The Enneagram, Loss, Trauma, and Family Systems
with Suzanne Stabile, Dr. Barbara Rila, and Rev. Dr. Andy Stoker
DAY 1 / RECORDING 1
Enneagram Triads and Introduction to Family Systems
The importance of Backdrop and Context
Change vs. Transformation
Enneagram Triads
Q&A
What is the difference between true depression and self isolation with FIVEs?
How does “allowing” fit into family systems and trauma?
How does a 7 manage gluttony and excess?
How are the triads responding to the pandemic?
What is the difference between fear and anxiety?
What does “self forgetting” mean for enneagram 9s?
Family Systems
Feedback loops
Balance and Homeostasis
Boundaries and Differentiation
Loss and chronic anxiety
Stoker Notes and intro to genograms
Q&A
Secrets in the family
Tension shifting from one family member to another
Welcoming a new child into the family
more!
This day’s recording is 5 Hours and 39 minutes long (Size: 244 MB)
Day 2 - Available February 12
Day 3 - Available March 12
Day 4 - Available April 9
The Enneagram, Loss, Trauma, and Family Systems
with Suzanne Stabile, Dr. Barbara Rila, and Rev. Dr. Andy Stoker
DAY 1 / RECORDING 1
Enneagram Triads and Introduction to Family Systems
The importance of Backdrop and Context
Change vs. Transformation
Enneagram Triads
Q&A
What is the difference between true depression and self isolation with FIVEs?
How does “allowing” fit into family systems and trauma?
How does a 7 manage gluttony and excess?
How are the triads responding to the pandemic?
What is the difference between fear and anxiety?
What does “self forgetting” mean for enneagram 9s?
Family Systems
Feedback loops
Balance and Homeostasis
Boundaries and Differentiation
Loss and chronic anxiety
Stoker Notes and intro to genograms
Q&A
Secrets in the family
Tension shifting from one family member to another
Welcoming a new child into the family
more!
This day’s recording is 5 Hours and 39 minutes long (Size: 244 MB)
Day 2 - Available February 12
Day 3 - Available March 12
Day 4 - Available April 9
Day 1 Recommended resources:
Boss, P. (1999). Ambiguous loss: Learning to live with unresolved grief. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University.
Boss, P. (2006). Loss, trauma, and resilience; Therapeutic world with ambiguous loss. New York: W. W. Norton.
Gottman, J. M. (2011). The science of trust: Emotional attunement for couples. New York: W. W. Norton.
Greenspan, M. (2003). Healing through the dark emotions: The wisdom of grief, fear, and despair. Boulder, CO: Shambhala.
McGoldrick, M. (1995). You can go home again: Reconnecting with your family. New York: W. W. Norton.
Whyte, D. (2009). The three marriages: Reimagining work, self and relationship. New York: Riverhead.
Galindo, I., Boomer, E., & Regan, D. (2016). A family genogram workbook. Coppell, TX: Educational Consultants.
Beaumont, S. (2019). How to lead when you don’t know where you’re going: Leading in a liminal season. Lanham, MD: Rowman & Littlefield.
Rosenberg, M. B. (2005). Speak peace in a world of conflict: What you say next will change your world. Encinitas, CA: PuddleDancer.