Day 1: The Enneagram, Loss, Trauma, and Family Systems

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The Enneagram, Loss, Trauma, and Family Systems

with Suzanne Stabile, Dr. Barbara Rila, and Rev. Dr. Andy Stoker

DAY 1 / RECORDING 1

Enneagram Triads and Introduction to Family Systems

  • The importance of Backdrop and Context

  • Change vs. Transformation

  • Enneagram Triads

  • Q&A

    • What is the difference between true depression and self isolation with FIVEs?

    • How does “allowing” fit into family systems and trauma?

    • How does a 7 manage gluttony and excess?

    • How are the triads responding to the pandemic?

    • What is the difference between fear and anxiety?

    • What does “self forgetting” mean for enneagram 9s?

  • Family Systems

    • Feedback loops

    • Balance and Homeostasis

    • Boundaries and Differentiation

    • Loss and chronic anxiety

    • Stoker Notes and intro to genograms

  • Q&A

    • Secrets in the family

    • Tension shifting from one family member to another

    • Welcoming a new child into the family

    • more!

This day’s recording is 5 Hours and 39 minutes long (Size: 244 MB)

Day 2 - Available February 12

Day 3 - Available March 12

Day 4 - Available April 9

The Enneagram, Loss, Trauma, and Family Systems

with Suzanne Stabile, Dr. Barbara Rila, and Rev. Dr. Andy Stoker

DAY 1 / RECORDING 1

Enneagram Triads and Introduction to Family Systems

  • The importance of Backdrop and Context

  • Change vs. Transformation

  • Enneagram Triads

  • Q&A

    • What is the difference between true depression and self isolation with FIVEs?

    • How does “allowing” fit into family systems and trauma?

    • How does a 7 manage gluttony and excess?

    • How are the triads responding to the pandemic?

    • What is the difference between fear and anxiety?

    • What does “self forgetting” mean for enneagram 9s?

  • Family Systems

    • Feedback loops

    • Balance and Homeostasis

    • Boundaries and Differentiation

    • Loss and chronic anxiety

    • Stoker Notes and intro to genograms

  • Q&A

    • Secrets in the family

    • Tension shifting from one family member to another

    • Welcoming a new child into the family

    • more!

This day’s recording is 5 Hours and 39 minutes long (Size: 244 MB)

Day 2 - Available February 12

Day 3 - Available March 12

Day 4 - Available April 9

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Day 1 Recommended resources:

  • Genogram How To

  • Boss, P. (1999). Ambiguous loss: Learning to live with unresolved grief. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University.

  • Boss, P. (2006). Loss, trauma, and resilience; Therapeutic world with ambiguous loss. New York: W. W. Norton.

  • Gottman, J. M. (2011). The science of trust: Emotional attunement for couples. New York: W. W. Norton.

  • Greenspan, M. (2003). Healing through the dark emotions: The wisdom of grief, fear, and despair. Boulder, CO: Shambhala.

  • McGoldrick, M. (1995). You can go home again: Reconnecting with your family. New York: W. W. Norton.

  • Whyte, D. (2009). The three marriages: Reimagining work, self and relationship. New York: Riverhead.

  • Galindo, I., Boomer, E., & Regan, D. (2016). A family genogram workbook. Coppell, TX: Educational Consultants.

  • Beaumont, S. (2019). How to lead when you don’t know where you’re going: Leading in a liminal season. Lanham, MD: Rowman & Littlefield.

  • Rosenberg, M. B. (2005). Speak peace in a world of conflict: What you say next will change your world. Encinitas, CA: PuddleDancer.